tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post5269396219877597664..comments2023-08-04T15:09:10.997+01:00Comments on my little red suitcase: stripes Heather http://www.blogger.com/profile/16391490107612393396noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post-70998325664436961162014-12-21T21:39:42.114+00:002014-12-21T21:39:42.114+00:00I honestly do not send cards or gifts because I &q...I honestly do not send cards or gifts because I "must" or "should" do that- I just follow my heart and do what I "feel" and what makes me feel a deep joy inside. If the recipients don't return cards/gifts but I feel a great and deep joy sending them to those people, I do; otherwise, I don't and I don't ask myself the reason why, so I avoid judgement or resentment. I also go freely and without a list- what comes natural is always a good choice, in my opinion. To someone really special, I send a card and a long letter. Monicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11541697451249535177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post-78873691966141400212014-12-17T09:26:10.507+00:002014-12-17T09:26:10.507+00:00I know how you feel. I suppose I just like to keep...I know how you feel. I suppose I just like to keep in contact with people even if I haven't seen them for ages. A card just keeps that connection and who knows if I'm ever in their part of the world I'd like to pop in and see them for a cuppa! XMaggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04886529799426457381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post-37805568670496968402014-12-16T20:39:18.750+00:002014-12-16T20:39:18.750+00:00 I like how you said to keep or let go and perhaps... I like how you said to keep or let go and perhaps make room for new connections. That is exactly what I had to several years ago. my blood family is not a loving, functional one. My family consists of my kids, grandkids and a few friends who I know will always be there for me. It is hard at this time of year to realize that some relationships that should be solid are not. But, my family, the ones I call when I need a shoulder to cry on, are the ones I hold close to heart. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10465489209933862660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post-28219480159096135282014-12-14T21:11:28.787+00:002014-12-14T21:11:28.787+00:00this was quite funny, but I do know what you mean....this was quite funny, but I do know what you mean. That's the problem with the charity bumper boxes. All those decisions are too much! Heather https://www.blogger.com/profile/16391490107612393396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post-9426211208750739822014-12-14T21:09:36.776+00:002014-12-14T21:09:36.776+00:00I have been thinking about something along these l...I have been thinking about something along these lines. I have the beginning of a list for facebook messages instead, maybe some emails or some kind round robin. The times are definitely changing. Nice to choose a charity instead and let them know. Good thinking. Heather https://www.blogger.com/profile/16391490107612393396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post-14909543555436223522014-12-14T20:13:34.005+00:002014-12-14T20:13:34.005+00:00I think this time of year is quite hard on questio...I think this time of year is quite hard on questioning whether to send a card. I have received a couple of cards this year where their change of address cards have long since been lost, so I do feel awful, but in a sense relieved that sthis will be a natural stop. Over the last couple of years though I have sent out emails and a Facebook message to extended family relatives to say that I have donated to a charity instead - saving on the recycling later. Cynical I know, but I'd rather give/receive a telephone call, text message, Skype conversation than a card with the same sentiments year on year but no other contact. Oh dear I sound so Bah Humbug... must be the Christmas stress :-) xxsweetbriardreamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03036932595395191529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post-39586836243014306812014-12-14T19:34:28.474+00:002014-12-14T19:34:28.474+00:00I don't know. For a few years I actually didn&...I don't know. For a few years I actually didn't send Christmas cards early at all and waited to see who sent them to me and (this is a horrible thing to say) what sort of cards they sent. If they didn't send me a card in the second or third year then I don't feel I need to keep in touch with them. I also didn't worry about people who didn't send nice cards; by which I don't mean big and expensive, but cards that had good pictures on. I don't want to be the candle relative, or the holly leaf friend. Hard, but it helps me to recognise the ones that want to keep in touch with me! Angel Jemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08915392156232711695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post-85677279445299365862014-12-14T17:37:58.692+00:002014-12-14T17:37:58.692+00:00I believe life is naturally this way, people come ...I believe life is naturally this way, people come into our lives for a reason, always... but sometimes, that reason is short lived. I don't think that we have to completely shut them out, but sometimes... Keeping them at arms length is healthy.<br />I love the striped tea pot! Oh and I love the heading of your blog!<br />Merry Christmas Heather!<br />Tammy xxtlcukjourneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18126317345680620502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post-91083081653907735932014-12-14T17:23:42.040+00:002014-12-14T17:23:42.040+00:00Thank you Susan, it's sweet that you have this...Thank you Susan, it's sweet that you have this close relationship with your cousin's wife. I guess there are always blessings and we have to look for those too. XHeather https://www.blogger.com/profile/16391490107612393396noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572011697771003818.post-84860219799995021752014-12-14T16:22:52.640+00:002014-12-14T16:22:52.640+00:00Oh my goodness, so true. As The Husband has lost ...Oh my goodness, so true. As The Husband has lost both parents this year I feel relieved (yet guilty) that there are 'family' members that I (nearly put we, but truly mean I) do not have to see Ever again. The relief is an interesting sensation. I have culled the list once before, and there are question marks against some names this year too. I have distant (in miles) relatives that barely know me and my children since my father passed away 23 years ago and I have not kept up with (sad) due to life circumstances, and that is a shame. And I have nearby relatives that I don't care for much as they are older and all male. I am closest to my cousin's wife and people who don't know us think we are sisters. I have few female relatives at all, but am blessed with many girlfriends who bring me joy and I love to give cards too.<br />Christmas is a hard time when all is not quite well.<br />I may steal your teapot, a joy to behold.<br />much love xsusanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12762599123725286723noreply@blogger.com